A relationship is ‘a state of being related or relating’ according to the dictionary. We all seem to crave being related to something, be it another person, a pet, or within a family where we feel connected. We seem to have this relentless need to be with someone or something. The relationships I am mostly talking about are ones involving a romantic partner or the family unit. I also think we need to discuss our relationship to this planet, the universe and how our relationship to technology or artificial intelligence is affecting our human psyche.

History has shown that as a species we seem to have a pattern of adapting to power or control, government over citizens, or kings over citizens, and men over women. Where did this come from? I guess in some way it was for survival, that we needed to organize ourselves against the elements of weather and climate. We also needed to protect ourselves from other humans who sought to exploit and conquer us, so we got used to being in family units and in cities so that we could survive. The smarter of us or most cunning and clever seem to have taken control of the others; this has been happening since the beginning, when we roamed in human herds or groups seeking out places to live and find food and shelter. But during the course of history again and again we have asked the same question, who are we and how did we get on this planet, what is our purpose and how were we created? So, of course, that gave birth to religion and/or was the Bible our true History? The trouble is that we now have so many different interpretations from different ethnicities and cultures it is confusing. Do we believe blindly, following the leader to try and impose our beliefs? Many have killed in the name of those beliefs. This seems to be the biggest issue we have on this planet. History proves this again and again and it is our biggest downfall even to this present day.

So who and what are we? Well, I believe as do many others, and this to some extent has been confirmed by science, that our DNA has a little bit of the universe particles in it, so in essence, and again scientists can tell you that, within the nucleus of the cell we are pure energy. So we are beings of energy that are connected to all plant and animal life on this planet as well as being connected to the universe. We are all connected. We are all of one universal phenomenon. There is no need to be dividing us into groups by colour, race or religion. We are all one. We are all beings of energy experiencing a physical existence or reality. I know for many, this will not be surprising to grasp, but for many others it will be blasphemy. So be it…It is what it is.

So, as beings of energy we seek to connect with other to relate or be related. Have I lost you? AS well, we are here to grow and evolve as a whole.

Back to relationships with each other shall we-why is it men want to dominate or possess women? Well, in the first place men are stronger physically and usually the protector and women have been the submissive part of the relationship. So men want to protect, dominate as they feel it is the males place to do so and some to possess, for reasons of their own. However, what is happening to that paradigm? The answer is that it is changing and evolving and women for the most part no longer wish to be possessed or dominated. They are demanding equal rights in the relationship; they no long desire to be in the old paradigm. Current stats are showing that we have more singles on the planet than ever before and the reason is that because of evolution we no longer need someone to look after us. We have choices that we did not have or felt we could have. We as women have changed. So the male/female relationship is now threatened by not only the fact that people do not stay in relationships if they are not happy, they are now getting into same sex relationships. So what is down the road? Is the family unit no longer going to exist? Are we strictly going to have single parent families? Are we going to be looking at co-ops, communes or communities of people raising other biological parents’ children? We have many things to ponder for sure.

Another important thing that is happening is that people are challenging the beliefs of the past; they are simply not accepting what they have been told. For instance, a lot of people in most cultures have this unrealistic romantic notion about a two person relationship, as if it were a fairy tale. It is not or anywhere near this concept and I know many like to think it is, but you are bringing two people with different backgrounds, cultures, sometimes religions into play here. It is not a picnic, it is hard work and commitment and the older you get the more you need connections at multiple levels to make it endure. So are we looking at a new way of living and bringing children up? Frankly, I am not sure but hopefully we will not fall for the agenda of deceit that currently exists and they want to destroy the family unit but for other reasons.

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